Dealing with a less-than-ideal principal is enough to damper the best teaching situations.
Dealing with a less-than-ideal principal is enough to damper the best teaching situations.
Principals have a lot of influence over the general vibe of the school, and if your school has a difficult principle, it can be difficult to ignore. Here are a few pointers that can help you make the most out of a bad situation, but remember, if your principal is causing you undue stress, it may be time to look for a position at another school.
There is a world of difference between a principal with whom you have a personality clash and one who is behaving in an unethical or illegal manner. Avoidance may be the most effective strategy if you don’t like your principal or think they don’t like you. When they’re doing something wrong, it’s a completely different story, of course, but sometimes it may be best just to lay low and fly under the radar.
Making sarcastic comments or gossiping with fellow teachers or parents may feel good at the moment but can be counterproductive. Getting even or trying to rally people to your side is a fool’s errand. It would be best always to act professionally and respectfully, no matter your personal feelings.
When things get to the point where you’re thinking about calling in sick because you can’t deal with the situation or your classroom performance is suffering, it’s time to involve your Union Rep. This is why you pay your union dues. Your Rep should have valuable experience that can help you manage the situation. Be forthright with them, but stick to the facts without adding too much editorial comment.
There’s nothing worth your health. Even if you love your students and fellow teachers, if your health is beginning to suffer, it’s time to move on. Don’t feel guilty or chastise yourself for being a “quitter”. Our health is one thing that should not be compromised for any job. If you feel like you have pursued all avenues, nothing has changed, and you fear that nothing ever will, it’s time to consider your options.
Sometimes these situations work themselves out over time, but if you know in your heart that you’re in a bad circumstance that isn’t going to change, it’s important to protect yourself. Don’t let a misguided sense of loyalty make your stay in an unhealthy situation that shows no signs of getting better. It’s time to put yourself and your needs first!