Behavior

A Parent Teacher Relationship

There are a lot of experts who weigh in on parent-teacher relationships and they all seem to have many differing opinions. However, there is one aspect of the educational experience on which they all agree:

The better the relationship between the parent and the teacher, the better the chances for the success of the student.

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The need of a great parent teacher relationship

It may be difficult for some parents to hear, but it’s true that after them, their child’s teacher is the person who has the most impact on their lives. When your child respects their teacher, they will have a more positive academic experience. If they see you interacting with their teachers in a respectful and engaging manner they will feel empowered to develop a stronger bond with the teaching staff at their school.

A few key strategies exist that can help you to foster a deeper relationship between your child and their educators; the most impactful being effective communication. We all know and understand how overloaded today’s teachers are. With budget cuts and overcrowding, they are often responsible for over 30 children in one class! This can make it difficult for them to spend quality one-on-one time with each and every student. However, if you go out of your way to interact with them it is likely that they will behave in kind.

Below are a few helpful tips on how to grow a positive parent-teacher relationship and give your child all of the benefits that come with that reality. It’s vitally important to get off on the right foot with the educators in your child’s life, and following these tips can help you to achieve that goal.

Be respectful

If you come across as if you know more about what’s best for your child’s educational curriculum it may be difficult to form a close and positive relationship with their teacher. Make sure that you are respectful of their position as your child’s primary educator, and if you disagree with their approach do so in a collaborative and respectful manner. You both want the same outcome, which is a quality school experience for your child. Keep this in mind every time you have an interaction with a teacher.

There is nothing to be gained by forming an adversarial relationship with a teacher. In the event that you disagree with their teaching style or how they are treating your child, make sure you don’t make the situation worse by becoming hostile. At times when there is an issue that needs to be addressed, it can be helpful to call in an administrator or another third party that can help keep the discussion respectful and on track. You don’t have to agree with every decision that your child’s teacher makes, but it is important to choose your battles and let somethings go unsaid.

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Allow your child to have independence

One of the most difficult phases of any parent’s life is when their child begins to form close bonds with people outside of the family. It’s important that you allow these relationships to grow in an organic manner and give your child the necessary space to branch out. It is possible to provide guidance and support from a distance which will help your child to gain confidence and learn how to interact with other adults. Giving them independence is one of the most important ways that you can give your child the confidence they will need later in life.

When your child’s teacher understands that you have faith in them and that you trust your child to form an independent relationship with them, it can help to foster a stronger bond between the two. If you are constantly micromanaging every interaction that your child has with their teacher it can stifle their growth and also have a negative outcome for your child’s classroom experience.

Stay humble

Allow teachers and other students to discover the great attributes that your child has without becoming boastful. Boasting about one’s child, especially to their teachers, can be annoying and have the exact opposite effect that you want.

When you have a positive attitude about your child and you maintain a sense of humbleness when dealing with their teachers, you let them discover your child’s best assets in a new and special way. By not clouding their perception of your child, they are able to see them in a different light, as their relationship will be different than yours. Parents who are able to be engaged in their child’s education without second-guessing every move by their child or their teacher allow their children to flourish and gain a strong educational foundation.

The best mindset is to remember your own school experience and how you wanted your teachers and parents to interact. There are a lot of different ways that your relationship with their teacher will affect your child’s educational experience, and it is important that you get off on the right step with them. Take an active interest that allows room for your child and their teacher to form their own bond and relationship.